A lot has been said of the hospitality
of the Ethiopian people. Foreigners who have been here have time
and again given their accounts of the warm reception of Ethiopians.
The traditional sense of hospitality and some recent trends in its
evolution are this week’s focus for Society.
Ethiopian Hospitality
A tired traveler on a darkening rural path can already hear the
baying of dogs disturbed by the hyenas that have begun to come out
of their lairs for an evenings feeding, Swinging his 'Kezera' -
the cane without which no self-respecting peasant would ever venture
out of his hut, the weary sojourner spots a hamlet over the next
ridge, breathes a sigh of relief, and heads for the closest circle
of huts.
The dogs in this abode set up a clamor as they sense the stranger
approaching, giving ample warning to the master of the house. He
appears with a no nonsense look and armed with you guessed it, a
mean looking cane.
Maneh! (Who goes there!) he shouts, trailing the cane on the gravel.
'Yemeshebet Engeda" replies the stranger, standing just outside
the entrance to the fence (enclosure). "I am a journeyman whom
the darkness has caught ". The stranger is certain that he
would be taken in as it is the custom of the land to shelter a voyager
seeking a night's shelter.
He is welcomed in and a resting place prepared for him. But that's
not all, depending on the stranger's social rank; the master of
the house may even relinquish the bridal bed for the guest's comfort.
The stranger may even be treated to a feet washing by no other than
the mistress of the house, who of course, will also serve the stranger
with the best food and drink the house has to offer.
This is the extent to which Ethiopians have developed the custom
of hospitality.
This culture is still alive and well today although fortunately
without excesses such as having a guest's dirty feet washed by the
wife. Ethiopians still give one another effusive greetings whenever
they meet and this practice is even more evident in how we welcome
non-Ethiopians to our nation. Apart from the hard time foreigners
have to endure on the country's city roads that feature a good deal
of mendicants, the general attitude and reception is something to
be commended. But then again, cities are where the poorest of the
poor live and thus places where survival is the main goal - not
adherence to long established norms.
Though it might appear to be an old fashioned thing these days,
hospitality to strangers is a human trait. The fact that the capitalist
system that has taken the world by storm somehow promotes individualism
and self reliance might have to do with the decline of the traditional
sense of hospitality.
Is hospitality a human trait or
something Ethiopians are suppos
edly good at?
I don't know what people mean by Ethiopians being a 'hospitable
people'. Does it mean that other nations turn away their guests
- or at least welcome them with less warmth? In my considered opinion
no nation can be more welcoming than others.
Muse, Artist
It's not a question of whether we are a more hospitable people
or not. The difference is that the Ethiopia welcome is measured
with the pride that the foreigner is always very welcome as long
as he/she does not threaten our sovereignty. That is why in my opinion
we tend to give very warm welcomes. Most of Africa on the other
hand, has had painful memories of being colonized - perhaps because
they used to be so welcoming that they lost their heritage, culture,
languages and land.
Abe, NGO official
I believe that foreigners are made to feel like very special guests.
We Ethiopians are a polite people (Of course, there will be black
sheep in any society) on the whole and consider ourselves as being
cultured. One of the hallmakers of sophisticated culture is the
manner and customs by which newcomers are embraced. So yes, I do
believe that we are the most welcoming people on Earth!
Daniel, Businessperson
What some would term good hospitality I would rather plain common
sense - or greed if you prefer it that way. Ethiopians, (like other
people in the world), are smart enough to know that a foreigner,
tourist or not is also a walking ATM. The more welcoming the native
is to the foreigner, the higher the chances of a few dollars being
earned for the "Warm welcome"
Susa, Tour Guide
The truth of the matter is that all similar societies like Ethiopia's,
meaning God fearing, close knit communal ties and rigid social hierarchies,
are more welcoming than the bland and synthetic western cultures
where a simple smile not really be a smile.
Girum, lecturer
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